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"Life is not the way it's
supposed to be, it's the way it is.
The way you cope with it is what makes the difference."
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| Divorce is
among the most painful of life events. In addition to the loss of
love, companionship and financial upheaval, it brings to the surface
our always-nagging feelings of unworthiness. Our parents or our
schools never gave us the emotional tools and support necessary to
live in intimacy with another. So after the early romantic stage,
many decent, intelligent and well meaning couples find themselves in
a state of stagnation and disconnectedness -- each seeking to
complete the self that each secretly believes is lacking, and
thereby unawarely ascribing to the other the impossible task of
making him or her happy, and then contenting to live in a home with
varying levels of unexpressed and love-eroding resentment.
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